1. You’ll Spend More Time With Them Than You Think

From nervous morning preparations to emotional vows, joyful confetti throws, and the chaos of the dance floor — your photographer is there for it all. If you don’t feel comfortable around them, it will show in your photos.

You should feel at ease chatting, laughing, and being yourselves. Whether your energy is calm and gentle or loud and full of banter, finding someone who either matches that energy or gently lifts it is key.

2. Personality Matters Just as Much as Portfolio

Of course, you need to love the way their work looks — that’s a given. But once that box is ticked, look a little deeper.

Ask yourself:

  • Do they feel approachable?

  • Can you imagine having them around your friends and family?

  • Do they communicate clearly and honestly?

As a wedding photographer in Carmarthenshire, I pride myself on being down-to-earth, friendly, and real. I’ll laugh with you, calm nerves when needed, chat to your guests, and blend in so everyone feels comfortable — even those who “hate having their photo taken”.

3. The Best Photos Come From Trust

When you trust your photographer, you relax. When you relax, your photos become more natural, more emotional, and more you.

I’m not there to force stiff poses or awkward moments. I’ll guide you when needed, absolutely — but I also let things unfold naturally. I believe the most meaningful images come from connection, not instruction.

That trust is built through open communication, honesty, and choosing someone whose approach aligns with what you value.

4. Energy Sets the Tone

Your photographer’s presence can subtly shape the feel of your day.

Some couples want calm and quiet reassurance. Others want laughter, warmth, and someone who feels like a friend by the end of the night. Neither is right or wrong — it’s about what feels right for you.

My approach is relaxed, warm, and professional. I’ll bring positive energy to your day, help things feel effortless, and step in where needed — without ever taking over or making it about me.

5. Local Knowledge Is a Bonus

Choosing a wedding photographer in West Wales who knows the area means more than just pretty locations. It means understanding light, weather (very important in Wales!), venues, how to adapt quickly when plans change and even speaking the local lingo can help!

From windswept Pembrokeshire coastlines to countryside venues across Carmarthenshire, that experience helps keep things calm and running smoothly — even when the unexpected happens.

6. Picture Yourself in Their Work

Finally, and perhaps most importantly:
Can you see yourselves in their photographs?

Not just the styling or the poses — but the emotion, the energy, the storytelling. If their work makes you feel something, if it feels honest and aligned with how you want to remember your day, you’re on the right track.

Final Thoughts

Your wedding photographer will witness some of the most intimate moments of your day. Choosing someone who matches your vibe, understands your energy, and helps you feel completely at ease is one of the best decisions you can make.

If you’re looking for a wedding photographer in Carmarthenshire or West Wales who is friendly, honest, approachable, and truly invested in telling your story — I’d love to hear from you.

Simply can get in touch via my contact form.